Becoming a Lovable Person: Finding Enduring Romantic Encounters   by Elridge Jones

in Relationships / Love    (submitted 2010-02-09)

Being a truly lovable person is a unique quality that can attract you to the opposite sex friends. How do you become the type of person that people find lovable and irresistible? Compare your self to some one that is. A lot of us find babies and small children simply lovable creatures. If you can examine the qualities that make them that way, you can find yourself one step closer to finding out the things you are missing to develop a love positive personality.

Children are truly innocent when it comes to interactions with others. They are lovable because they have a friendly disposition toward others and have a sharing personality. They don't prejudge people, don't look for the worst in people and tend to smile at everyone. They don't put up defenses for the most part when approached by others and are free of negative emotions. These are the kind of traits that make them lovable to us all.

Not many adults can attest to having all of these qualities. It is a tough word we live in and many of our experiences will have no doubt shaped the way we interact with other people and form our own judgments. But imagine if we can think about all those desirable qualities that make children lovable. If you could adopt some of those and study them, imagine how many people would be attracted to you. A forgiving nature, freedom from negative emotion, faith in other people until they prove them selves unworthy are all things we adults can learn to make ourselves more lovable and attain a love positive personality.

Seizing on this concept, this is one sure way to increase your own personal growth and become more lovable to other people. Simple as this may seem, this is one way to increase your chances of true enduring romantic encounters. People you deal with on a daily basis will become more attracted to you and like you more because of your desirable traits. Romance will find you when you least expect it as you will attract partners of a higher caliber who will be in concert with your personality. Just remember to continue to focus on personal growth and developing a love positive personality and you will find the love partner of your dreams.

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