How Do I Get My Ex to Return My Phone Call, Text Or IM   by Ayodele Arimoro

in Relationships / Dating    (submitted 2011-08-24)

How Do I Get My Ex to Return My Phone Call, Text Or IM

Phone calls

Are there 'magic' words that you can use to ginger and get your ex to return your phone calls? This sounds hard to believe but there absolutely are words which when systematically used will nearly cast a spell on your ex and make him or her feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?

I am going to share this with you two very great and mighty forces in the human mind which when used becomes irresistible with another person. These two great forces are CURIOSITY & SELF INTEREST-use it to your advantage and you will get your ex returning all your calls.

And the AMAZING THING about these forces is the greater effect pulled when synergized and used together. These two when combined together, results in a RECIPE that WILL work like magic. The result has been found out to be incredulous and unbelievable altogether.

Let us look at some of those words that creates curiosity and self interest anytime that you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Bob. It's Dolly. I just wanted to let you know I very much appreciate what you did for me. Kindly, call me because I want to thank you in person."

The magic this will produce is that when Bob hears this message, he will not be able to resist but start to thinking "what does she appreciate?", "what exactly is it that I did?

Bob in this case is already showing curiosity-wanting to know what he did, and self interest-wanting to know what she appreciates.

Another point to note in doing this is never to use a negative message but a positive one and it makes Bob feels good.

An example is PLEADING and a note of EMERGENCY. This two almost NEVER works.

Consider this:

"Bob, please, pleeeeeeeeeeeeease call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And this:

"Toby, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

What is pathetic about this method is that it gets your ex further irritated as he or she would easily know that you are trying to get him/her return your call with tricks. Also note that in these two methods there is nothing that could raise the curiosity of your ex. So never use this method of call returning if you really want to get your ex back. It definitely put them off further.

Now the most crucial part of our magic system is the need for adequate preparation. Before you call you need to do a unique "Set Up" by figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate. It could be any small thing but which needs to be plausible.

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