How To Pick Up Girls Like A Seasoned Pro   by Rennie Larue

in Self Help / Advice    (submitted 2012-01-03)

Not many men have mastered the art of picking up girls and of the few who have mastered only a handful can explain perfectly what they do. This art "how to pick up girls" can be learned and perfected with practice and time. Your good looks will not assure you an easy time, when picking up girls, although looks play a role in attraction it does not help much when sealing up the deal.

Learning this art will require you to change your personality and can be learned by anyone. The first step in learning how to pick up women is getting friends who are good at it and observing them and asking questions. Learn as many theories as possible and then decide which ones look realistic enough for you to try.

Tips on how to pick up girls

Girls are hit on by men who want to pick them up regularly, so be sure there will be a big competition when picking up a girl of your choice. Do not just pick up any girl you see in front of you, but take your time to observe and then select the girls you want.

Before you approach her she already know your reason for doing it, so what will make give you her time? Do not be like the other guys, but be unique and enjoy what you are doing and she will have fun too. Have a purpose for approaching her and make her smile and laugh then she will open up and be comfortable with you.

Be very composed and calm when you approach her, as she can smell your lack of courage and confidence in yourself. One thing you should know is that not every girl will like you or you will be compatible with. Actually many of the girls after the first conversation will not live-up to your expectation and you theirs, so do not focus on the outcome whether you will succeed or not. Focusing on this will cause you to screw up and mess things up as it will affect your courage.

Flirting is the key to succeeding in starting a conversation with a girl, but be very keen not to compliment her looks at in your first pick up lines. Even if she has the most beautiful smile you have ever seen, do not compliment her on that because as soon as you do, the conversation will begin to die as fast as it started. Compliment her about her dressing, her dancing and anything ordinary you note about her. Her looks should be complimented much later.

Attraction is one of the key factors that will make her even talk to you. So you have to learn how to convey the signs of a wonderful and pleasant mate. This art of attraction can be learned by hanging out with friends who are already good at picking up girls. Know how they do it and practice it when talking to girls. You will have to change your personality and even your style of clothing if necessary.

Do not talk to her the whole night, as you might display your desperation, but instead sweep her off he feet and lighten up her mood for a while and make an excuse while asking for her number. After getting it you might text her before leaving the venue and then call her the day that follows.

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