Slave Contracts   by William Morris

in Relationships / Sexuality    (submitted 2010-02-23)

Contrary to popular belief, the world of BDSM and Gor has several rules and regulations, and almost everyone following the lifestyle has a responsibility towards the lifestyle. In fact, BDSM has some documents that are written and signed between the dominant and slave, or the group of dominants and the group of slaves, as the case may be. One such important document is the slave contract. Here is some information about the slave contracts.

What is a Slave Contract?

A slave contract is a document that is signed by the dominant and the slave, in an endeavor to symbolize and validate their relationship in the eyes of their peers. The slave contract can either be verbal or written, and a copy would normally be with the dominant and the slave. The slave contract is mostly written out in paper, or nowadays a digital copy is created and a copy is sent to both the individuals who are taking part of the slave contract. A slave contract can either be temporary or it can be permanent. If the slave contract is temporary, the contract can have the time limit written down, so that everyone knows the exact date and time that the slave contract expires.

What does the Slave Contract contain?

The slave contract basically contains the slave' affirmation to serve the dominant and contains the dominant's affirmation to care and nurture the slave, as well as control her to whatever extents have been previously decided. Some slave contracts also contain specific rules and regulations for the dominant as well as the slave. The slave contract is therefore, the be all and end all document in the world of BDSM.

The slave contract can contain several aspects, like what the slave has to wear, how the dominant would be taking care of her, what is allowed between the slave and dominant, what is disallowed between the dominant and the man, and it may even have rules about the day to day living of the dominant as well as the submissive or slave. Mostly, a slave contract is signed between a submissive and a dominant, and not a submissive and the dominant.

How do you get a Slave Contract?

A slave contract is pretty simple to get. You can either have a slave contract written by yourself or someone who knows what BDSM is all about. Remember that a slave contract is not legally enforceable, and it will not hold in the any court of law. Therefore, a slave contract is only a symbolism to ensure that the slave and the master have something to symbolize their trust and the relationship that they have.

These are just some of the aspects of a slave contract. Before you get into a slave contract, make sure that you are completely sure that you wish to pursue the relationship with the person who would be the other person in the slave contract. Also, before signing up with the slave contract, make sure that you have read all the clauses and regulations in the contract.

About the Author

William Morris writes for KinkyCohorts.com, the best place for alternate lifestylers to meet and interact.