Some Questions Before the Wedding    by Cornelia O'Hara

in Relationships / Marriage    (submitted 2012-01-12)

While planning a wedding can really be challenging, brides and grooms should still assess themselves and their feelings before saying their "I dos." This is important before even getting married and asking questions to yourself about your relationship will even further deepen the bond you have with your partner.

It is true that weddings can really be an exciting moment but it can be an overwhelming experience for many. And there is no doubt that there are so many brides who fall into doubts especially when the wedding is near. Weddings can be so busy that sometimes the bride and groom forget their own needs and wants. Remember though that your wedding will just happen for a day, but your marriage will last forever. So before getting married, here are some questions you should start asking:

1. Are you compatible in bed? Most couples do not think about this especially those who are still holding their first time for their honeymoon. But even conservatives can easily know if they are sexually compatible and that is even with the simplest intimate moments you have. For those who have been sharing a more intimate relationship, your compatibility and views regarding sex will also translate to an even better and deeper relationship. Openly discussing expectations would create for better communication and a better marriage.

2. Are you planning to have kids? This is one of the most important questions couples should assess since most partners expect to have one right after the wedding. However, some couples prefer not to have kids right away while a few do not want to have them. For those who are planning to have kids, questions such as how many kids you'd want, where to raise them, and who will continue working to support them are just some questions to think about.

3. Where will you live? For those who already have their own apartment, they will just easily transfer to their partner's apartment. However, there is still a lot of couples who are not prepared when it comes to where they are going to live. Some may even live with their parents after the wedding. You have to think over if your home should be near your workplace, if you are going to invest in a new home or would settle for an apartment. These questions should make you more prepared.

There are still a lot of questions you should think through before buying your wedding jewelry or preparing the wedding. Keep in mind that planning a wedding is not a game. Marriage is a commitment you will have to work through for the rest of your days so always be prepared.

About the Author

Cornelia O'Hara writes articles on weddings, jewelry, fashion, and etiquette for Silverland Jewelry & Gifts.