The Natural Art Of Meeting And Attracting Women By Richard La Ruina   by Rennie Larue

in Relationships / Dating    (submitted 2011-11-07)

Some of you may have heard of this guy, he's known as Europe's top pick up artist (PUA) and has trained with some of the most skillful seducers in the world, not to mention coached thousands of guys in the area of dating and relationships for the past 5 years.

After meeting, attracting and eventually seducing countless women, Richard La Ruina (also known as Gambler) decided to jot down a few of his findings in a book called "The Natural Art of Seduction" which shows you step by step, how to attract women from the first meeting.

Below are a few of his most lethal techniques for enticing a woman and making her feel a deep level of attraction towards you. Use them with caution because they can work very quickly.

Forcing IOI's

An IOI for those who don't know, stands for indicator of interest which simply means a woman showing interest in you with subtle clues, like eye contact or touching. You don't have to wait for these IOI's to go over, if you're impatient and full of confidence you can make them happen yourself.

Say for example you walk into a club and you see a girl you like, grab a drink and walk over to her. With your eyes locked, say to her "cheers" and clink glasses, if she smiles then that's a sign that she likes you and you can start a conversation from there. There are tons of ways you can force an IOI, you just need to be imaginative.

Story telling

The greatest way to seduce a woman, according to Casanova was to use story telling. He famously used poetry to seduce his women, but regularly told stories to build rapport and entice them. A good story will hook a woman, build attraction and deepen the connection quickly.

All you need to do is create a good hook, make it interesting and finish on a high so that it will make her laugh or feel some form of emotion that strengthens the interaction.

Body language

Sub communication is so important it's unreal. Women respond very well to a guy who has strong body language and displays an alpha presence. You need to use your body to display different personas that women will naturally pick up on.

For example, how would a rock star sit in a bar? He'd be relaxed, legs wide open, arm over a chair... almost like he's at home. Most importantly, he gives off the impression that he doesn't give a crap about anyone, especially women. This is the same vibe you want to give off.

The bottom line with seduction is that you must be willing to try new things in order to get positive feedback. There are some things that work for guys whilst other things don't, it's up to you to see what does and what doesn't.

About the Author

Learn more about Richard La Ruina and start pulling more women than you can handle. Not only is he the real deal, but he uses everything he teaches, so you know it works.