Top 10 First Date Tips for Guys   by Nathan Hall

in Relationships / Dating    (submitted 2011-07-16)

If you’re searching for first date tips for men, we’ve written this list with the most fundamental 10 tips. We’re going to discuss about planning the first date, about the right attitude, making her feel good, connect with her, body language, things to avoid, making her feel you’re a confident man and more advices so that you can easily pass to the second date with her.

Tip 10: Don’t buy her affection. If you’re going to bring her a bunch of flowers, expensive presents, or take her to the fanciest restaurant in town at your first date she’ll fear you’re attempting to trade your money for her feelings and that’s not attractive (unless all she wants is your money).

Tip 9: Act natural. Be yourself, because if you want to be with her she has to like you the way you actually are.

Tip 8: Be romantic. Romance is highly underestimated by men nowadays, and unfortunately, girls really need it. That doesn’t mean you have to memorize verses, but you can invite her to a romantic boat ride at the end of the date or at least invite her to a similar feat. Also be well-mannered, lead the way and open doors.

Tip 7: Plan ahead. You always need some handy back up plans, just in case. When you phone her to decide the place of you'll go to, give her several options instead of just one. Think about what you'll talk about, so you avoid the moments when you don’t know what to say anymore.

Tip 6: Find a suitable dating place. You want to interact and communicate with her as much as you can so don’t choose a location where you can’t speak to her much (cinema) or you can’t get too close to her (a dinner at the restaurant). Propose her a dancing evening, or playing darts or rock climbing, or anything that allows you to interact more with her.

Tip 5: Grooming. You don’t have to put on a tie, instead choose a comfortable outfit that fits you well. Groom yourself. Don’t be late for the date
Never be late. Try to be there several minutes earlier.

Tip 4: Playful attitude. Flirt with her from time to time
Flirting with her will compliment her if you don't do it overly. Touch her gradually starting with the palms, then arms, shoulders but don’t do anything aggressive. If she responds, try to kiss her, first a small kiss on the cheek, then another tiny kiss on her lips. If she rejects you, stop for a minute and then try to kiss her once more. You could get a beautiful irresistible make out session or no kiss at all, but if she refuses, at least she’ll think about it until your next date.

Tip 3: What does your body language tell? Maintain eye contact with her. It shows interest and self-assurance. Relax yourself, and if on a chair, lean back a bit. Avoid invading her private space too much, don’t act so desperate and control yourself.

Tip 2: Be funny. Joke with her and show her your sense of humor. Women value sense of humor in a guy more than many other values. However, you don't have to become the joker of the night; too much means too much.

Tip 1: Listen to her. Make an effort to really listen to what she says; observe her body language and the way she responds to your actions. This will make her feel you're subtly connected to her. Her words and her movements will show you everything you need to transform this first date into a future relationship.

With these first date tips for guys you can get a marvelous dating experience. All these first date tips are essential but if you can see their priority too, your results will improve dramatically.

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